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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Look. All we can get is what OP posts. Some of her posts make it sound totally inappropriate and icky, some of her posts make it sound more harmless. What stands out to me is her stating that she is the only one IN THEIR CIRCLE who seems to think it’s weird. That means it’s not just “mom is in denial”. It implies that other parents in their social circle do not see anything inappropriate with their interactions. Only OP does. Am I the only one who thinks maybe , just maybe, that means OPs lens is colored a little for some reason? You can see a 14 year old hug his sister and then carry her off jokingly at the pool while she laughs in protest. And you can describe it just like that. Or you can describe it “he picked her up and held her close to her body, and wouldn’t put her down, and she didn’t seem unhappy, because she knew he wouldn’t listen to her protests”. OP is describing. It the second way. She admits NO ONE ELSE IN THEIR CIRCLE THINKS ANYTHING IS OFF. Maybe OP is the only one who notices. Or, more likely, e is seeing intent and innuendo where there is none, for a reason of her own.[/quote]

I went back to see if I missed some posts.  She said once, early on, "it seems like I'm the only one in their circle who thinks this is weird."  I think you're reading it to say that other people have said this is fine when I'm reading it to say that OP feels weird about it but hasn't said anything to her friend, and other friends haven't said anything to OP (or to her friend in front of OP), which is not the same as other friends not thinking it's weird.[/quote]

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