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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So, to get some perspective, I'd like to ask people who haven't cheated yet have been accused by their spouse of cheating ... what did you do? Did you storm out of the house? Did you get super defensive? Did you gaslight your spouse? Were you OUTRAGED?

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My wife had some kind of gyno issue years ago where the OBGYN told her it was probably an STD.  She was pissed, sure I was cheating on her, and confronted me.

I haven't so much as kissed another woman in 15 years (since before we married), so just laughed about the whole thing and said "I don't know what to tell you, but I promise I didn't cheat on you".  I maintained my innocence, but found the whole thing kind of amusing.  I think that put her at ease, that I was so relaxed about it, and obviously had nothing to hide.  Definitely wasn't outraged, although I did tell her she might want to find a new OBGYN.

Secretly, it also put me a little at ease because it's obvious she's not cheating on me if she's confronting me about this.  [/quote]

Thanks, PP. This sounds like what somebody should do when they are actually confronted and are entirely innocent. [/quote]

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