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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Was I wrong to tell her it’s no longer her business as she’s made it clear she has no interest, or obligation, in sex with me?[/quote]

Can't say if it was right or wrong but damn sure sounds juvenile.[/quote]

OP here. It was not a well thought through reply. Juvenile? I don't know... I wish it was only limited to that... but I don't know of a single adult out there that isn't guilty of it at some time or another. So... what's your point?[/quote]

OP, you are either a troll who wants to see how many pages he/she can get to by responding to so many comments, or you are showing yourself to be really quite bad at communication.  You acknowledge the response was mean, but keep doubling down on defending it.  What your comment did was close of the possibility of any positive, constructive communication about your sex life and marital problems in that moment, and punish your wife for bringing it up.  If you want to solve this problem as a couple, then you can't be pushing her away like this.  You have to be welcoming intimate communication, whether physically or emotionally intimate.  If your wife was trying to initiate a conversation in good-faith, what you did is the equivalent of slamming the bedroom door and yelling "go away!"  Do you want try to work this out with your wife or not?  Have you already talked it to death and there's just no solution or do you shut her down every time she tries to talk about it?  
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