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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Let's see here.

Closed adoption.

Birth mother adamant she not be contacted.

I don't see any reason for misunderstanding here.

Your sister needs to leave them all alone.

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+100000. The birth mother gave her child up with a legal document protecting her identity and this needs to be respected. The fact OP's sister outed her to various family members is horrible. No wonder they don't want anything to do with her.[/quote]

The child was not a party to that agreement and has absolutely no obligation to go along with it.  This all really does demonstrate that the story that people who give up their children for adoption for altruistic reasons because they could not possibly care for them are sometimes j[b]ust weak people looking for an easy way out[/b] of an uncomfortable reality.  When you [b]keep a secret, sometimes it comes out. Live with it.  
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+1,000,000.[/quote][/quote]

Ah, ok. I get it.  So this is about morality? The true judgment comes to light.

You pro-lifers are always preaching about adoption as the way to deal with unwanted pregnancies.  But, really, you will want to continue to punish the moms who had babies in a manner you disagree with in any way possible.  "Live with it." "Weak people." Referring to the pregnancy/adoption as a "secret." Seceding the mothers' wishes and legal arrangements -again- to that below other parties. It's not about the kids at all, but exacting your moral revenge.

Disgusting.[/quote]

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