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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You say you don't want a divorce but maybe she does? Sounds like you're not well matched but it sounds like you could be friends and good co-parenting partners. [/quote]

OP here, no I wouldn't think so.  [b]She is pretty happy.  If you asked her if our marriage would good she would say its great. Its almost like she is blind to the fact that the sex issue is so big, even though I have told her multiple times that it is.  We are well matched as husband and wife, just not lovers-though we used to be.  She was never a nymph or anything but it was good, enough for me to want to sign up for it for the rest of my life :)  We are good friends, and co parents, just that's not what I want from my wife.[/b]  [/quote]

God, this is me.  My wife would convey that everything is hunky dory and marriage is great on all  fronts.  Meanwhile, she provides maintenance sexual availabilty  (not participation) every two weeks and has been without a libido for going on 12 years --- long before we had kids.  I crave engagement, interest, imtimacy and passion.  I know that fades with time, but I hate to think of going the rest of my life without feeling that again.[/quote]

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