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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  Thanks for all the replies.  Really I wasn't complaining or looking for reasons why or ways to improve it.  I have done all of the things that the well meaning posters have replied to no avail.  The bottom line is that at this point I am just kind of over it.  No, I don't want to divorce over sex, we do have a good life overall.  That said, I just find it increasingly to care about my wife as a wife when the part of our relationship that makes it a marriage is pretty much gone.  Really all I was looking for was to see if anyone on here had been in my shoes and how they managed it without making the marriage worse.  [/quote]

Treat her kindly and with respect for the sake of your children. Always be polite and civil in front of them. Treat her like a friend who you are raising children with. Strangely, people are often nicer to their friends than spouses because their expectations for that role are much lower so if you can get back to thinking of her that way, you are golden.

Find a friend who you can share your emotional life with. [/quote]

^ Also I personally would completely stop initiating sex with her. See what happens on that front if you stop asking for it. [/quote]

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