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[quote=Anonymous]As a couple of recent posters have mentioned, OP needs to be cognizant of the difference in options as men and women age. It's extremely clear her husband strongly want a to be a dad. At 38 or 39, he will have plenty of options to go find a late 20s woman to be with. Obviously I sincerely hope that doesn't happen, but if OP finds reasons to put off kids more than a year (and it would be understandable in the middle of a demanding education and work schedule), he has options.

On the other hand, women's options generally shrink as they get into mid 30s.

OP, being a mom clearly isn't a priority for you right now. That's ok. But I worry about your priorities and your husband's not being matched up. I truly don't think you're going to be in a situation where suddenly the time feels right a year from now.

If you're 40, and you could ONLY choose between being a CRNA or a mom, which would you pick? Act accordingly. I hope that you don't have to make that choice, but putting off kids if you want them at your age and the situation with your husband is foolish. [/quote]

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