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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I truly cannot believe the number of PPs who think marriage is some sort of endurance test you have to finish just because you started it. I married my best friend. We do everything together, and still miss each other when we're apart. I cannot imagine sharing my life with someone when we don't share anything but a house. Why would you tell someone "you made your bed, now lie in it" when they both still have time to find someone they can enjoy spending their lives with? Are your marriages that empty?[/quote] +1 OP do not listen to all these people saying you NEED to stick it out. You are so young and not all marriages eventually become like yours is now. I've also been married for five years and my husband is my best friend. We do every thing together and have so much fun. We also miss each other when we are apart and I can't even sleep well without him. Life is so short and you can't waste your time with someone who does not make you happy. All these people telling you to stick it out are also in dead marriages and they're just trying to justify their own decisions. When you find someone new make sure you are on the same page with kids and religion. My husband and I agreed long before we got married that we didn't want kids and we couldn't be happier. We have a list of places we want to travel to in the next 5 years and I can still talk to him for hours. As far as you wanting to try a separation, isn't that what you are kind of already doing since he is deployed. I would move out now and really see how you feel in your own space. [/quote]
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