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[quote=Anonymous]First you have to start preparing your stuff. Make it seem like spring cleaning and decluttering. It's a mental exercise to see how much stuff you want to take with you, get rid of stuff you don't need, make the old lighter. Then you have to sort out a place to go to. Luckily schools going to be out. Honestly the best thing would be to go stay with your mom or a family member. So try to save as much money as you can until that day comes, maybe in a few weeks. In the meantime, read the books 'codependent no more' 'you can heal your life' 'revolution from within' anything by osho. Basically the plan is to leave when he's away. So you will have to be able to pack up what you need in a few hours (like when he's at work etc). It's will have to fit in a few bags. Depends how he is, you could tell him you're going to visit your mom if he's cool with that or just go. What I did was just go. It also depends how he's going to be with the kids. I was in Nj and there was a domestic violence center at the court that helped with the legal advice. So you will have to figure out your rights. If you have any documentation of abuse, you should get that organized as well. The main thing is to save up money and have a safe place to go. Sending prayers.[/quote]

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