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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When he hit the kids and you were still married, what did you do? Have you ever hit your children? I’m not trying to be a jerk, I’m trying to consider what he’s going to tell his lawyer— that you were fine with corporal punishment before and now you’re “punishing” him.[/quote] I don’t hit my kids. When they were younger, it was mostly spanking, though there were times it went further. I stepped in when I could, but I didn’t support many of his choices. It feels like things may be getting worse now, and I know I need to have a serious conversation with him about it—possibly threaten taking him to court, it might improve things. He still wants to see the kids, and I’m concerned about my safety if I pursue full custody. [/quote] No no no. No! Do not discuss this with him. No threats, no cajoling, no warnings. You need to go straight to your lawyer. [/quote]
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