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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think things have gotten to a very bad point where your daughter is hitting someone twice in a night.

This is not a "send to your room" level issue.  You and husband need to figure out what is going on here and have an appropriate level of correction/punishment with your daughter.  You guys need to be a team here and take this seriously.  I don't think this incident is over nor should it be.

Is this behavior out of the blue or part of a larger pattern?[/quote]

I posted before. I expected my husbands reaction to be temporary, but it wasn’t so I’m mainly looking for advice on how to prove to him that what he’s doing is wrong.

She’s received consequences for her behavior. She became angry, and resorted to violence which isn’t the solution, and we’re working on dealing with it.

I just think he shouldn’t be cold to her. How can I get him to see how this is hurting her?[/quote]

I really hope you're trolling, because you're really not doing your daughter any favors here.

The fact that you're running to the internet to prove to him that he's wrong is all kinds of screwy.  Your husband doesn't care what internet randos with partial information thinks, nor should he.  You cannot just berate him into your way of thinking. His opinions on parenting and consequences when he was the one hit matter.

You interfering so your daughter doesn't face consequences for hitting someone is toxic.[/quote]
My daughter already received consequences. No devices for two months, no freinds/going out for two months, no allowance, no vacation with freinds this summer, and my husband wants to leave her while we go on our family vacation this year.

All I really want for him is to not ignore her.[/quote]

You keep changing your story and this is hopeless.

If you're not a troll, get off the internet and talk to your spouse like a grown up. [/quote]

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