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[quote=Anonymous]I suggest talking to a college counselor and see if they will let you pay for an hourly meeting. The reality is that it is really challenging to get into a top college from a "big 3" school because you are in direct competition with your peers. The best saying I've heard from an admissions officer is that "it's not about what you've done, it's about what you've done with what you've had." In a competitive environment, it's challenging just to be an average kid. In a less competitive school, it's actually easier to take full advantage of all the resources and advanced classes to stand out from peers. A well informed college counselor can explain this and help your daughter understand how to approach building her profile starting as a Freshman. Her feelings are valid but her understanding is misinformed. I'd get a professional in front of her and talk about some action steps that get her closer to her goals related to college. There is a lot of misinformation about college admissions, and a lot of it comes from friends.[/quote]
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