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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]it sounds very much like she is masking at school and then unmasking at home. I agree with PP on the evaluation.[/quote] THIS. THIS. THIS. Lower the demands on her. Make home cozy and easier. Lots of soft and easy loving interactions, not criticism and “consequences.”[/quote] I agree. You described her as good at everything, everyone loves her, she’s pretty much flawless. She chooses to release her frustration or resentment at home, at you. Make sure she’s not doing any activities that you picked, not her. It doesn’t matter if she’s good at it. She isn’t having problems at school so there should be a way to positively discuss her day. [/quote]
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