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[quote=Anonymous]You absolutely do NOT have to wait 15 years. These kinds of things happen all the time. My parents' marriage fell apart when I was 12 and my younger sibling was ten. 
It was obviously NOT ideal, but looking back their maririage wasn't either. 
Both of my parents married amazing people, and my parents were definitely happier in their second go round than they were in their first. 
There were some crappy times, sure, but they would have been crappier had they tried to breathe life into a union that was clearly dead and made them both miserable. 
I have been married to my wife now for twenty years, and we have three kids and are VERY happy. I just mention this because I wanted you to know that in my case at least seeing a failed marriage didn't doom me to the same circumstance. She is also the product of a divorced family btw.
I will say this, if you get serious with someone just make sure they ease into interactions with your kids. 
My stepparents handled everything brilliantly and never overstepped their bounds even years after they were married to my bio parents. 
Get back out there sister. 
Find you a dude
Have some fun
Get back in the saddle.
Your kids will be fine 
I can honestly say that my life has been greatly enriched by my steps [/quote]

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