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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not a black and white issue for me. I can understand why people lie about this stuff on first meeting.

I would want a very early clarification though. "Hey, now that this is more than just another random one off dinner date, I want to be upfront about..."

A lot depends for me on how she approached telling you, why it took this long (!!!), what the overall context of the relationship is, and - most importantly - what your gut says.

If your gut instinct is bad - trust it. If your gut is that this is forgiveable/understandable and the full context of the relationship mitigates this one thing, then hang in there a bit maybe and test the viability.

Big red flag at minimum, but not necessarily an absolute immediate relationship ended IMO.[/quote]
There are so many non-liars out there. You recognize a glaring red flag, and encourage op to put it aside? No no no. We see the red flags and we GTF away from people who seek to lie and deceive us! Have some self respect ugh. [/quote]

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