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[quote=Anonymous]Not a black and white issue for me. I can understand why people lie about this stuff on first meeting. I would want a very early clarification though. "Hey, now that this is more than just another random one off dinner date, I want to be upfront about..." A lot depends for me on how she approached telling you, why it took this long (!!!), what the overall context of the relationship is, and - most importantly - what your gut says. If your gut instinct is bad - trust it. If your gut is that this is forgiveable/understandable and the full context of the relationship mitigates this one thing, then hang in there a bit maybe and test the viability. Big red flag at minimum, but not necessarily an absolute immediate relationship ended IMO.[/quote]
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