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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it's fine to date and want a relationship.

[b]I think conceptualizing it as "a second version of life" might be problematic UNLESS that version still centers your existing kids[/b]. Like when you envision this other life, where are your kids? What is their relationship with this other person you love? Do you have other kids? How do your existing kids fit in with any additional kids?

You can pursue happiness for yourself, but as a mom you need to prioritize your kids' well being too. Not over, but also. Your kids don't want you to be miserable but they need you to be present and focused on them. You need to find a way to do both.

Also, are you in therapy? I think it would really help you work through this.[/quote]

This is what I was going to say. You are entitled to your life, so hopefully you can find a situation in which your kids are in a better spot because of this person as well. If not, I'm sorry, it's not your fault but it's the hand you were dealt.[/quote]

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