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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hard truth, if you are already thinking about this as a second version then you’ll screw over your kids. The “do over” kids will serve as a painful reminder to your “dumped kids” that not only did they not have the happy family but right in their faces is their mother being great with the do over kids. The best you can do would be to not stop working and make sure that you put money into college savings etc for your dumped kids. If you inherited anything from your parents don’t squander it on yourself and your do over kids, put some away for your dumped kids. Don’t expect your dumped kids to love the situation. Don’t rationalize that they are fine and you deserve your happiness so everything is OK. It isn’t. It sucks for the dumped kids. Just own it and don’t pretend you are a great mom, you aren’t. [/quote] Whoa, there's some serious projecting going on here. Who said OP is planning to "dump" her kids for a do over??[/quote]
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