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[quote=Anonymous]You need an attorney asap. And I’m sorry you’re going through this. I think you are being pretty realistic about how custody will play out. I’ve posted here before but I know a guy who got 50/50 as long as he had an ignition device and it was only for a limited amount of time. As soon as that time was up, he went back to drinking. The best his ex, who is an attorney, can do is document what’s going on and wait for the standard time in our jurisdiction before she can file for modification. For now she is being 100% obsessive about documenting things like on-time drop offs, school attendance, homework, extracurriculars, etc. The documentation is almost its own part-time job. But you MUST get out. If he kills someone or causes horrible injuries and their family sued, imagine the legal and financial consequences you would face as a family. If you can’t get better than 50/50 custody, you’ll still be better off than being married to someone who could financially ruin your family forever in addition to the impact it had on another family.[/quote]
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