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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It could also be that you have changed, OP.

I have found that I have gotten gentler and more open-minded as I age, and this has made me more aware of very negative or judgmental attitudes from others. I have friends I've known for decades and who are the same as they've always been, but I find I can't spend as much time with them as I used to because I am more bothered by their snarky or judgmental tone.[/quote]

You claim you've gotten "gentler and more open-minded" but you're "bothered by their snarky or judgmental tone"? These positions are incompatible. Gentle, open-minded people don't need to judge other people's "tone". They can accept that others communicate how they do and it's not about the listener. Needing to control other people's tone isn't gentle or open-minded, it's judgmental, controlling, and a waste of time. [/quote]
Are you seriously trying to convince someone that being gentle and open minded means they can't have standards about how others talk to and around them? You are very manipulative. [/quote]

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