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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would probably ask her inquisitively what she hopes to gain by enabling male sexual access to her body as an unmarried teenager while emphasizing its her body her choice.

Then I would share the unpleasant but true reality that women bear nearly all of the risk and consequences of sex. I plan to have this talk with my daughter well before age 16.

Next I would make sure that she understands most men don’t equate sex with love and will happily have sex with almost anyone. There is often very little correlation with the desire for a romantic relationship. So few women understand this reality.

Then I would share with her the many ways men coerce, deceive and manipulate women (especially young and foolish girls) into unwanted sex acts which are often violent and harmful.

Then I would tell her she is special and loved and encourage her to seek medical care. 
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This isn't true. While men can more easily disconnect sex from emotion, many men care greatly for their romantic partners and sex is very connected to that and a way to feel that connection. Men are humans and they need and want love and care just like women do. If you have boys you would know they also desire romantic relationships, want to love and be loved, care deeply, feel heartbreak etc. Men and women can both be manipulative and her boyfriend is most likely just as much a young and foolish boy as she is a young and foolish girls. Do you want her boyfriend's dad warning him about all the ways women are horrible and awful, and how women will try to mess with him? Do not teach sexist tropes to your sons or daughters. Embedding misogynistic or misandristic views in your kids is really poor parenting. [/quote]

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