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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s because “specializing” is something adults do, not healthy kids. A kid who “specializes” is being pushed by their parents, not by their own talent and drive. Also a kid with truly extraordinary talent would be bored by being limited by adult-created categories. [/quote] I couldn’t access the article so I don’t know what they consider the levels are in each discipline that corresponds to success. I will say that our child was identified as an exceptional athlete early by a grade school gym teacher. We thought he was nuts, but in a nice, harmless way. He ended up being correct in the end. DC participated in basketball, lacrosse, soccer and track between 6 and 10. They also skated, but that was completely unstructured. At 11 they specialized in a single sport. They were always chosen to play up at every level, until they ran out of upper levels. They became a division one athlete. I don’t know if that would meet the definition of success. The statement I quoted above confuses me. We didn’t push anything. We tried to slow things down. It disrupted our lives and initially was quite expensive. There are intense people in this world that are difficult to keep up with. That’s what makes them successful. No one would ever classify us as overbearing parents. We were more victims of circumstance that tried to accommodate our child the best we could.[/quote] Big deal d1 . This is talking the top Olympic athletes concert pianists chess grandmasters [/quote] Read the quoted part in 20:30.[/quote]
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