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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I thought this was fairly common? There's always a "teen" (I presume 18) genre link front and center at porn sites. [/quote]

I'm aware, just wish he didn't put the cutoff at 30 knowing damn well I turn 31 soon. [/quote]

He was trying to neg you so you will feel insecure and continue hanging out with him. Don't fall for it.[/quote]

Op here, this makes the most sense to me. Honestly I am kind of out of his league and I feel he knows it. as far as he has told me, I am the only girl he's slept with since we first hung out. Meanwhile I have tons of options, have had a threesome and other fun. I am honest about it, so there's no reason for him not to tell me if he is hooking up with others.

He tells me about past adventures including paying for sex. I kind of wonder if most of his sexual experiences are paid for, as he is kind of clueless in bed. I don't even really like him for the sex, I like our conversation and the fun dates he plans.  [/quote]

Honestly this whole thing sounds quite toxic. You’re telling him about your adventures, threesomes, hot coworkers. Then you asked him a question you knew you wouldn’t like the answer too.

It sounds like you’re in some weird competition to prove who cares the least what the other is doing and who is out having the most fun. It reeks of insecurity.

He has probably slept with other women besides you but was trying to be polite. Then you started talking about how hot your coworkers are, which is hurtful to the person you’re sleeping with, FWB or not. So he one upped you.

Also, never ask men questions you don’t want to know the answer to. I don’t ask the men I’m dating if they think so-and-so is hot or has a great booty or whatever, because I don’t want to know the answer and I’m not gonna play the stupid game where we have to lie to make other people feel good about themselves.

BTW he could just as easily have posted “my FWB told me about a threesome to hurt my feelings because she thinks I’m not as good in bed as those people” or whatever. Stop it and grow up. [/quote]

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