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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We did a live-in nanny for a while.  The convenience is AMAZING.  But it does cost $$$.

OP, you mention that you are considering this to lower your out of pocket expenses.  Do you want to share the math?  Having a live in nanny increased our expenses in a number of ways:

Getting take out.  Of course if you are taking orders for take out and she's sitting there, you are going to include her!  We were getting take out 1-2x/week so including her entrees added up.

She's at your house, so you're going to include her in things like birthday parties, fancy dinners, social events, etc.  On her bday we threw her a party and got her a bunch of gifts.  Adds up.

It's her house and she'll rightly expect to use it.  We have a pool so our nanny hosted a few pool parties.  We let her and her guests eat our food/drinks.  Adds up.

Your utility bills will go up a bit.  Our nanny liked hot showers and keeping her windows open in the winter.  LOL.

I found that another person in the house meant stuff did wear out quicker, etc.  She ruined a very nice Le Cruset dutch oven because she didn't understand enamel scratches, and she ruined my Dyson.  This stuff happens, you have to accept it and eat the cost.

She wanted to go along with us on certain outings (this could be very nanny dependent) so obviously we would buy her lunch here or there.

The biggest thing I learned is that we don't have a great set up for a live in nanny.  Our nanny is VERY social and it wasn't a good fit for me (a total introvert).  We didn't have a basement apt or in law suite - she was just in a large bedroom with her own bathroom.  Having to share the common areas was very painful for me.

But, again, for the time we did it, the convenience was unparalleled.  No cancellations due to bad weather or car trouble.  Less sick days off.  Working late or last minute switches to the schedule became easy.  Just don't think it's going to be easy on your pocketbook![/quote]

DP. This is a very useful summary of pros and cons. I have experienced some of these with nannies but never had a live-in because I am also an introvert and having someone FT in my house is all I can handle. [/quote]

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