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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is your DD the family scapegoat? The one who gets blamed? For everything? For existing? The identified patient?[/quote] Oh no it's the golden child who acts like this. [/quote] But the scapegoat is often incorrectly perceived as being selfish because the bar is set was too high and they are held to a higher standard than their sibling. OP says the bean counting issues started when the younger sibling was born. So, these aren’t inherent personality traits. It could be that the DD was expected to be mature beyond her years because her parents were overwhelmed by a new baby. OP probably fueled the dynamic.[/quote] +1[/quote]
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