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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There seem to be a huge looks discrepancy between some women in their late 30s and 40s as well. I reviewed the female profiles of my “competition” similar to Amy Webb . Some 40s women look like they are late 50s. Some late 30s women look 45-49 yo to me. I wouldn’t have cared as I still look decent at 47. Some men also look waay older than me at age 47.

But the issue with that is - men look at these “40s” women and decide that all 40s women old and change their search filters. Then, even if a woman looks great she has no chances to appear in his search. Because 50% women and 30% men lie about their ages.

[b]I spoke with my GFs who are also on OLD. They all were listing ages 5-10 years younger than their actual age. Like, a 53 yo friend was stating she was 45. She looks way older than me but would appear in search more than me.  
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Which is why men think women “hit the cliff” etc at certain age. My mother didn’t hit any cliffs and gracefully aged with excellent skin until about 70.

Do you reduce your age to avoid age filters? It seems to be the only way to go - play by the system rules. Then immediately disclose your real age when you match, reasons for that and they can unmatch after. [/quote]

Your comment here totally disproves the story we usually see on this forum about men wanting older women.
If your 53-year-old friend shows up in more searches when she says she's 45, it's simply because most men aren't into older women. [/quote]

Just like most women aren’t into older men either. Most men and women end up dating and marrying someone closer to their age: the gap at  marriage is 2-3 years statistically [/quote]

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