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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here - can anyone talk about what is abuse to kids? Is just anger and yelling abuse or is that normal for a DH/dad? I feel like I have normalized things over the past many many years so I am unsure if I’m being dramatic or if it’s abuse. [/quote] No it is not "normal for a dad" You are not being overly dramatic, it is abuse. OP, I have worked in many battered women's homes. It only gets worse, even if he never laid a hand on you or your kids.. Emotional abuse is definitely a thing. While you are thinking about leaving do these two things. 1. Make copies of all your financial records. Hide them in a safe spot. People used to use safety deposit boxes if not available, rent a locker somewhere. 2. Get a bunch of Visa cards at the Grocery store, CVS, target, Walmart, even Lowes or Home Depot sells them. Like $25 or $50 ones and hide them as well. This way if you have to leave in a hurry you have money and information for your lawyer. [/quote]
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