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[quote=Anonymous]I have a mother like this and this likely isn't just anxiety. My mothers rage, neediness, manipulation and so much more crossed into personality disorder territory. Your mom's behavior is disturbed. She is prettifying you and making you responsible for her mental health. She needs to be in therapy and get a psychiatric. Hopefully the therapy you get can help you with boundaries. I will be a sounding board and emotional dump place for my kids because I know the line and do get them therapy when I think it is needed. I used to get into really unhealthy 1-sided relationships with friends dumping on me that mimicked my relationship with my mother, but my boundaries are firm these days and those relationships didn't last. I am emotionally supportive, but not codependent anymore.[/quote]
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