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Reply to "I need to get off the emotional rollercoaster with my husband’s BPD mom"
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[quote=Anonymous]Please stop with buying books for “us” and trying to be his therapist. In addition to not needing to spend time with his mom, it is also ok to say “I cannot be your therapist on this. It is just too much for me.” You have taken this on as your problem as well — and it really isn’t. I say this as someone whose dad is the problem. I manage it with very strong boundaries and low-ish contact. It isn’t my husband’s problem to solve. [/quote]
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