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[quote=Anonymous]Years ago, before social media was really a thing, I had a friend with a prominent blog. She figured out pretty quickly that the men she dated would behave as soon as they figured out posting about their relationship was on the table.

You know how a few months into dating men start to show their true colors? The anger outbursts, lack of effort, entitlement, etc? Around the time men started acting up, they’d also “jokingly” ask “you’d never post about me, right?” She’d reply yes, she would, and they’d either disappear or immediately get their act together.

So I can see if you have a large social media following, it can actually be very beneficial to post about men, divorce, etc. Men who behave badly don’t like their behavior made public.

FWIW I don’t think everyone should immediately jump to posting on social media every time their husband, say, forgets to start the dishwasher. Then you look petty and become the boy who cried wolf. But posting what a bad man is doing, very matter-of-fact, without a lot of drama, can be an effective way of keeping them in line. [/quote]

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