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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you are lucky, you have the looks that makes you look beautiful when you do makeup, hair, clothing etc. - but - you look like a normal, healthy, attractive, kind, regular person otherwise.

If you are lucky, you are well proportioned and healthy so that you don't look sexy until you dress sexy.

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Totally this. I learned at a young age that if I wanted to have female friends, I had to dress like a tomboy and wear no makeup. I still got attention (and to be clear I’m attractive but nothing special) but girls were nicer to me when I didn’t put any effort into my appearance. It’s like they could forgive me for being naturally attractive as long as it didn’t look like I tried AT ALL. As I got older I learned to dress for my audience: if I wanted to put effort into looking good I could do that with close friends or on dates, but for interactions with new women or professionally I just couldn’t do the things other women did. [/quote]

Why’s that fool[/quote]

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