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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would love to know the answer to this. Similar situation but we’re not even to the financial part and are stuck on time. DH wants time with the kids but then never actually rearranges his schedule to make it work and doesn’t show up to events he promises to be at. I have to pick up the emotional mess it creates and it’s really hard not to shred him to pieces in front of the kids, but also hard to make excuses for him. I know the financial stuff will be just plain vile.

I think the hardest part is having to convey to the kids the apologies that their father really should be giving. I frequently find myself in that position and it is not fair but it feels like one of the parents needs to acknowledge how messed up things are.[/quote]

Schedule a 4 hour mediation session and get through all your issues at once.  A good mediator will help find a agreeable middle ground on everything.
We did and it resolved 95% of our parenting plan.[/quote]

This only works with someone whose main goal [i]isn't[/i] screwing you over.[/quote]

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