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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is a perfect example of how it is always better to separate/divorce when a marriage is bad - - most especially when children live in the home. Because sooner or later things affect the kids. Always. OP >> plz do not be so hard on yourself. ❤️🩹 You are not a bad Mom. It is entirely your husband’s fault that your husband treated your daughter this way! Is there any way that you can get him to leave the home so you & your DD can resume life w/o his abuse?? [/quote] Well- I left my abusive ex in 2018 and now that my daughter is a teen he turned his abuse to her (not my sons). Though I have primary custody he screamed terrible things at her and told her to “go live with mom” then didn’t speak to her for months. I had to go pick up a crying sad scared 16 year old. So- let’s continue to blame the abusers not the women who are damned if they do and damned if they don’t. [/quote] OP and I’m sorry about your DD. Can you think of any advice for me to watch out for under the assumption that DD will have to spend time with DH in the future? She is 10, so she is old enough that she is fully aware of what happened last night and very upset and scared. DH doesn’t seem to get it and texted like “why can’t she spend the weekend with me? This is between us so if we have to be apart why do you get her?”. He doesn’t get it, and doesn’t see that he terrified her last night. I feel like I am going crazy reading that. For the others: dog is safe and happy with us and headed to camp with his friends this afternoon.[/quote]
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