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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why are women willing to sacrifice so much for love? Do they get a different physical/mental sensation from being in love compared to men?

I am asking because one my coworker was telling me that he recently attended a wedding where the bride was a 42 years divorced with 2 kids very successful making close to $300k but remarried to a guy who works overnight at an amazon factory moving boxes. I have noticed that for love women will sacrifice so much..they will marry a guy who makes significantly less. They will marry an unemployed man and financially take care of him and the house. They will start feeling pressure when they are the last yet to be married in their group in of friends. They will ignore red flags starting at them and get go ahead. Why?[/quote] Because I had terrible self esteem and thought I was really in love with this guy who didn't have a penny to his name and wasn't fazed by $100k in credit card debt back in the 90s.

I can't undo what was done but I know I thought this person loved me and I didn't believe I deserved someone who was also at least somewhat financially responsible. He did eventually start to make money but that would never have happened if I had not been there to hold his hand and use my money to bail us out along the way. And then the financial success went to his head and it all went up in flames. I don't beat myself up because I can't change my poor decision in the husband department. [/quote]

You answered OP's question. Don't blame yourself for falling in love. You sacrificed a lot for love because like most women you genuinely believe in true love. [/quote]

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