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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DH and I have been together over 25 years. It used to be that I’d voice things I was upset about and then kind of snowball until I realized what was actually bothering me. It’s been much better since I’ve taken the time to write things down that are bothering me, sleep on them or figure out which ones are worth addressing and which ones are just because I’m tired, or hangry or whatever. I do bring up the things that matter and we discuss things pretty well, but I am sure there are lists around - I’ve even come across old lists before. Any chance that’s what’s happening? My husband knows I now journal my initial feelings / get the frustration out so I don’t think he’d be shocked if he found lists. [/quote] This is a good perspective and something to think about. Maybe this is his "journal" so to speak and a way to work through issues before saying something he regrets. I will try and give him the benefit of the doubt...[/quote]
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