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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op you write about all these things as though they happened to you, instead of you choosing them. Obviously you chose to marry this man, to have kids with him, to not work, to depend on his income, to move to a city you didn’t like. Take some agency for your life. Get a job, get some hobbies. [/quote]

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. I moved to his side of town. Joined his church. Started spending all my time with his family. when we were 31 we moved to another city that I hate for his work. 
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It sounds to me like you decided to give up yourself and don’t like the choices you made. There are many wives who don’t attend the same church as their husbands.

Why on earth did you spend all of your time with his family while neglecting your aging mother?

Frankly you have trained your husband that it’s your natural desire to acquiescence to whatever he wants so he probably has no idea that you dislike this setup.

Grow a backbone and stop being a doormat if you aren’t enjoying the tradwife experience. Even most tradwives have a lot more agency in their role than you do. [/quote]

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