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[quote=Anonymous]As others have noted, it may depend on the sport. I was a college athlete but my DD, 13, will not be. She tried several team sports when younger and decided that they were not for her. She went out for several individual sports in middle school, made new friends, and even was selected for the team's leadership awards this year. She isn't the top of the heap but is above average. Sports in middle school have provided numerous friendships, the opportunity to support and encourage, and she remains physically active. My point is that you should let the child lead the way and be supportive. If/when it no longer is feasible, it's an opportunity for growth. If she wants to practice more, great. Support that, provided it is possible financially. If not, be honest with her. If she does not want to practice more, calmly explain that work ethic is important to improve in any and all aspects of life, whether sports or studies. Let her think about that while also trying to help her find other opportunities to make friends. I am certain there are other activities she might like to try at some point. Good luck![/quote]

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