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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You children need to step back. Very loose hold on the rope. You do not have to fix this . She is in a care facility. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO FIX HER. OR CURE HER. OR EVEN MAKE HER FEEL BETTER. IT IS NOT YOUR JOB.
Stop looking for a cure or fix. Just stop. Live your lives. Nor orbit angrily around her.
Let her be. See how she does. It cannot be worse for you than your micromanagement is. It may be no different for her.
I suggest you look into AlAnon because you children are enraged codependent. You need to live as faults not overburdened terrified children.
Love to you all.[/quote]

NP here. Thank you for this. Sometimes I think there is really something wrong with me because I don't see a need to treat my parents' physical and mental declines with massive time and resources. So many people are like OP that I wonder if I'm supposed to be insisting on more, when all I really think people in their late 80s need is a gentle passing on. We are living way past any quality of life in this country. Stop all the medications and die naturally--this is nuts.[/quote]

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