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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you've made your younger child the golden child and your older child the family scapegoat. As a family scapegoat, it pings hard for me reading your post. Older child is not allowed to express her needs. Her needs -- time with her friend group, sleep, some time to herself away from younger sibling -- are viewed as selfish wants. I remember it well, it was awful. My mother didn't see me as a person, she saw me as an obstacle to glorifying my sibling, she sided with my sibling against me, I was selfish for...wanting, separating, being me. You are setting up your children to not be close when they grow up.[/quote]
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