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[quote=Anonymous]If you prefer to stay together for kids,money, loyalty or whatever reason important to you, for 1 year, let go of perfection and try to create a calm and low stress home environment for yourself, him and the kids. Cut down on kids structured activities to trim cost and logistical chaos. After that let him take the exam with a healthier mindset and increase income so you can hire help. You need to relax as you sound genuinely overwhelmed with all that life has thrown at you. Take it easy. Even with him out of the picture, life issues are still going to be there with high need kids so taking divorce doesn't sound like an ideal solution. I think you are really frustrated and he is really depressed due to his inability to clear his licensing exam. Put things in perspective, reset and start again. Hugs to you for dealing with all that. It must be tough but you sound like someone who can manage it once you learn to breathe. Go on walks at least three times a week to get some sun and fresh air. [/quote]
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