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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sounds like you're setting yourself up for disappointment and him up for failure. You know he has poor executive functioning but keep expecting him to just suddenly step up and do tasks like put together favors? You really thought that would lighten your load versus create the trash heap?

You know he has for years avoided solving problems but you expect him to just start doing it now?

Does your therapist ever talk to you about setting boundaries and how you can only control yourself? If he's going to be how he's going to be, you have to decide what to do with that. Don't parcel out tasks and expect him to suddenly change out of nowhere this time. Lighten your own load other ways.[/quote]

I agree with this. Even in good relationships, you can't give people tasks and expect them to do it exactly as you would. The more efficient solution is you wrap the gifts yourself if it's important to you or outsource it. You're definitely setting up your household for failure with your expectations. [/quote]

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