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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] He does not extend the same kindness towards me as he does to other women in public[/quote] This is a problem, and something I’d go to marriage counseling over. He’s showing you contempt. Take it seriously. You will have to push to resolve this. Prepare for him to resist, but don’t let the marriage go down the death spiral. Contempt is the mid-point.[/quote] I had to correct my DH on this one time. I was like “even if you don’t feel better about this other woman, you don’t publicly treat me 2nd class and her 1st class.” Literally in my case it was so dumb but still pertinent. He was chatting with the neighbor two houses down. Long conversation. I was multitasking in the yard, couldn’t get over to their spot to chat until I put a hose or something down. I went over, and he didn’t ‘bring me in.’ Just very impolite. Kids needed me, I was out of the conversation again. Later, we needed him to answer something (quick interruption of their long convo) and he was a little short with me. It’s like, just basic politeness while you’re having a polite conversation with another woman, please. I made sure he knew it. I don’t care, it had to be said, even if they thought I was being bzitchy.[/quote]
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