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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] My sister lives 3 hour drive away while I live a 10 hour drive away, so they see each other a lot more for the little things [/quote] Well, it’s natural that Mom can spend more time with them and they developed more of a relationship. OP, as I read your comments, it seems like you are more concerned with the fairness of the time split rather than the relationship. I don’t know if that’s how you feel, it’s hard to convey complicated dynamics online. If you want a closer relationship, then I would say take the initiative. Don’t make it about your sister. Or even your kids. Focus on connecting with your mom as a person, and let things grow. Talk to her about wanting to be closer without placing a time label on it. See what happens. Maybe she will be more open to you and your kids. [/quote]
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