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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We have rewards for kindness but not good behavior. My behavior challenged kid never struggles with basic kindness and it surprised me when we started keeping track how much he earned. I was so focused on the bad behavior I didn't see the good that was there. Our rewards are extra screen time, extra allowance, a new board game, a new book, going out for ice cream (everyone). [/quote] If he has a sibling, that’s extremely unfair to the good one. Regardless, it’s your obligation to focus on his bad behavior.[/quote] How is it unfair to the other sibling that they both are equally recognized for being kind? Of course we have consequences for bad behavior but we don't use a reward system for that.[/quote]
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