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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Being feminine doesn't mean you are a trad wife. The fact that you immediately jump to extreme stereotypes tells me that you do not understand what a typical man is looking for on a first date. [/quote]

At some 47, OP, I hope, is considering what she wants in a man, is looking for a man who likes her as-is, and is not trying to dress to please a stranger.[/quote]

She can both want to put her best foot forward and look for someone who likes her as she is. Wearing a nice dress doesn't mean she's changing who she is as a person.

But she can also NOT wear a nice dress if that's her preference! She doesn't have to cast the widest possible net for someone who'd want to be with her.

In short - what are we even arguing about?!

I think PP's comment about the sweater dress was more a critique of it being a bit basic - but lots of people like basic! And lots of people look good in a sweater dress!![/quote]

We are “fighting” over this: “Preferably something that looks fuzzy and soft, you want to project that you’d be a nice feminine presence in their life.”. All fine if OP wants to project fuzzy, soft, and nice feminine presence in this stranger’s life. It sounds like it might be news to you that this is not how some of us want to project. [/quote]

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