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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There is no reason to maintain a relationship with a stepmother, ever. Why would you need to keep them in your life once your father passes? Any woman, at any age, who remarries should KNOW this and prepare accordingly. The stepkids have no interest in you nor the time spent with their father. It doesn't matter if it's two years or fifty years. As OP said, "I care about the memories he made with my mother." Original family comes first. Anyone else added later is expendable - including spouses. [/quote] Well, that’s not true across the board. Every situation is different. My stepdad entered my life when I was 7 and was a hugely important relationship. He passed when I was 44 and I miss him every day. If a step-parent didn’t help raise you/wasn’t a caregiver l, I imagine it’s very different.[/quote]
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