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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have fraternal BG twins, as well as a singleton who is 11 months older. Yes, it is busy!

I've had some dumb and inappropriate comments/questions, and I'm curious if other parents of multiples have also heard similar remarks, or maybe even ones more bizarre than the ones I've heard.

I'll start with a list of just a few:

[b]1. Are they natural? [/b] No, they are plastic.

[b] 2. Are they identical? [/b] They are BG twins. They look nothing alike. They are not identical.

[b] 3. Did you plan to have twins? [/b] Does anyone PLAN to have twins?

[b] 4. Are they triplets? (Asking while looking at my six-month-old infants and a walking toddler) [/b] Yes, this one, the one who can walk, is just advanced.

[b] 5. Did you use IVF? [/b] How is that your business?

[b]6. You have your hands full! [/b] Do I?

[b]7. Are they all yours? [/b] I gave birth to them, so I think so!

[b]8. Why don't they have rhyming names? [/b] Because we didn't name them as a "set." They are two separate people.

[b] 9. Do you have help? [/b] Are you offering?

[b]10. Did you nurse them? [/b] Why does that matter?

[b] 11. How did you get a boy and a girl? [/b] We put in a specific order from Amazon.

[b] 12. They look normal. You must not have delivered them early.[/b] Normal? What does that mean?

[b]13. How do you tell them apart? [/b] One is a boy and one is a girl. One has brown hair and one has red hair. One is significantly larger than the other. Additionally, I am their mom. It isn't exactly challenging to tell them apart.

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Why can’t you have a little more grace towards people who are interested in engaging with you?[/quote]

From OPs 13 points I could add more...Just on nursing  OP's 10 is the tip of the iceberg on nursing questions.  If there is variation between the children/mom on hair or color?  Add 14 where did yu get them or one of them?   Strangers wanting to know sorces.  Or if you look diff and young for yur age?  You're doing great watching them ...can you babysit? [/quote]

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