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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Outside of when you are having sex, how often do you touch and kiss intimately? Husband maintains there is “no point” if it’s not leading to sex. Is this a common belief?[/quote]

Is he perhaps saying that because you are intimate but [i]don't[/i] have sex frequently, so he is frustrated by the "teasing"? 
If he's sexually frustrated then nonsexual intimacy if frustrating. But if he's sexually fulfilled then intimacy is a nice callback and appetizer.
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It’s this.
He must be feeling like his sexual needs aren’t being met.
The touching/kissing you seek is simply signs of affection. The kind that demonstrates care and communicates “I love you, I care about you, you’re my person”
Married men who aren’t getting sex rarely feel warm fuzzies that make them express affection this way.
And if you’re doing this and it makes him think “oh wow, okay now she finally wants sex” and it turns out he is wrong, that’s a huge disappointment for him and so he’s probably saying this out of frustration.

Easy fix, though, OP.
Have sex with your man.
Several times this week. 
Then say sweet things to him the next day and watch him become more affectionate toward you. Men aren’t all that complicated.[/quote]

OP here.  It isn’t this.  I’m always up for sex and have never turned him down. I have the higher drive in the relationship. I think the opposite it actually true.[/quote]

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