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[quote=Anonymous]My situation was different because it was about middle of the night wakeups for a special needs child (we still have to get up with her as a teen). The lack of sleep was actually making me lose both my health and mental well being. So, I told him that loved him and didn’t want a divorce but that I was renting a studio to sleep in every other night. I would leave after the girls were in bed and would be back before our neurotypical child got up (our special needs kid would have no awareness of the situation). I just desperately needed sleep.

I started looking at places. When he saw me figuring out what rent, internet, etc would cost, he magically managed to get up every other night.  It has been that way for more than 5 years now I think. And we are still happily married. And it wasn’t really because of the money, he just realized how serious I was at that point and finally “heard” me.

In your situation, I would make him do pickups three days a week and would not worry a bit about 6:30 pick up. I would find a book club or something and not even be there at 6:45 one night a week. I would let him handle it entirely. [/quote]

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