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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I'd do what is appropriate to support your sister and her family in this tragic time, esp since you could not be there during the funeral. I'd also give some real thought to your family dynamics of judging, being superior, etc. That family members are saying "told you so!" to you re: a dead RELATIVE/CHILD! is important to note. You shutting that down within yourself and if it arises again, with them, can be an important shift in a prior pattern. We can't always prevent tragedy, much as we think being judgy is a shield. Basic human decency is pretty clear here. Sometimes bad things happen. It's part of life. Sad that attacking a bereaved family who lost a CHILD is your extended families response. Sit with the fear and grief that tragedy can and has struck and extend compassion. [/quote]
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